it takes getting out and meeting those with your meetup groups....do you do any thing singles oriented? that is easy way to make friends of both sexes.....hope it works out and start looking for different work since you hate it....

Hello how are u doing today? Lily, I understand how you feel. I felt the same way, just woke up and felt no longer connected. I am with you. Hard to make new friends, people seem so self absorbed or uninterested. Message me anytime.

Hi Lilly. I'm kind of feeling the same. I just moved two years ago and dropped certain friends that were not not good for me but have not been able to make new ones. I dont mind being alone either from time to time, in fact Im a bit of an introvert but it does get lonely. Can you look up any meetup groups in your area. I plan to go to one, one day. Otherwise can you reach out to friends here online?

I totally understand what you mean. One of my closest friends moved and my socialization has gone to nearly zero. You are right, making friends back in the day while going to school or at work was much easier. Now, if I meet people they all have their already-set group of friends and I don't find it easy to break into those groups.

I have always wanted to find some kind of meetup group, but I'll admit that so far I have been too timid to try it. That may very well change, though. I recommend it as I don't have any better answer for you myself. I am a hardcore introvert, and am very comfortable with my alone time, but it doesn't change the fact that I just feel the need to interact with others sometimes. I have found this site to be very helpful for that.

Greetings everyone earlier today after speaking to someone i really thought i wanted to be in a relationship with an was told pretty much they were happy the way things were (no where an moving slow..lol) i had this whoa is me moment ,,lol an it came from outta nowhere sadness an deep loneliness, i realized my friendships were all unfulfilling and everyone had something beyond this circle i created within the walls of this cocoon i created, my life had been solely in contingent to what was happening in everyone else's life, i realized i was a friendship side piece,,lol Really! when their lives are going well i don't hear from any of them, i was this go to shoulder everyone had access to an i forget about myself, self betrayal is what its been,, living in shadows hoping to see light pretending to be satisfied with the bits i was given, i looked in the mirror an said "yo u may not know what it is you want but you surely know this isn't what your purpose is" i shed a tear now i'm ready to Evolve