I personally have no problem with it whatsoever. Actually, I find it charming. I find it displays a lot of confidence.

I am all for the woman asking the man out. The man making the first move is so last century :)

I know it was a question for the guys but I'm gonna answer anyways... I find that when I approach a guy, whether it's asking him out or just flirting, he's just as flattered as I would be if the roles were reversed. I agree with FB that the man taking the first step is so ancient. We, women, wanted to be treated like equals so we need to "cowgirl up" and do the damn thing. IMO

Ok. I will follow Saturated's lead. I've been waiting & looking for the male perspective. But, guess I'll jump in too:

I am traditional in my thinking. I believe that it's good for the man to make the first move. I like to be treated like a lady, from the jump. On the other side, I know what I want. And, so many men seem to be too afraid of rejection. In addition, the older I get the faster life passes. Finally, I'm not looking to "hook up" with anyone. So, I think it depends upon your expectations and intentions.

I never want to miss an opportunity. So, if I want to spend time with someone, I ask.

I decided that I'm not gonna miss out on opportunities either so I have decided to be bold and just ask, kinda. I'm still kinda nervous so I just gave him my phone number. He didn't call so I feel rejected. That is why I don't like to do the asking.

I don't think there is anything wrong with the woman to ask the guy.

Yeah, I don't mind it at all either.
Why not?
Why go through life (male or female) waiting for someone else to make an impact on your life when you can do the deciding for yourself?

Being turned down happens, so what?
Most guys get over it pretty quick and move on to the next potential date, women should do the same.
Don't take it personal, keep your spirits up, be cheerful and go for it!

PS - I will be in the Quickie Mart, aisle 3, today at 5pm and waiting for you to ask.....LOL

Even though it's directed to the guys: I think asking a guy out is okay.
Life is short; go after it!

I think it's cool for the girl to ask the guy. It is very flattering!

Same rules apply to women when asking someone out. Never seem desperate!

And if your not comfortable with asking, ask and open ended question like, "So when are you going to ask me out?"

OMG Southern I used that line and its so on the money... It puts the guy "in charge" so he's shoulders broaden cus he know it's game on...

I wish more women would ask men out. Would help us get over the "She's not approachable" or "she's not into me". That and I think it's hot when a woman knows what she wants and isn't afraid to ask for it.