Hi everyone. I'm new. This is my first post in any forum so I'm a bit nervous. It's hard to know where to begin so a brief history of my failed marriage. I've been separated now for 4 years .I was married for 23 years and actually just need to sign the divorce papers to move on. I have two grown boys who are on their own and doing well. It was my decision the leave the marriage. I guess the spark died for me. I was an amazing wife and mother. I pride myself in raising two great boys. I'm in a relationship, actually with the man I left my ex for. For four years now. I want to be happy but this overwhelming sense of guilt is destroying me. I've tried therapy, exercising, almost everything. This forum is the chance for me to talk about this.
A husband and wife go visit a marriage counselor.First, the wife speaks to the counselor alone.The counselor asks, "You say you've been married 20 years, so what seems to be the problem?"The wife replies, "It's my husband -- he's driving me crazy! I'm going to leave him if he continues!""How does he drive you crazy?""For 20 years," she says, "he's been doing these stupid things. First, whenever...