Liars Anonymous Community Group

A support group to provide those with a compulsive addiction to lie a place to share hope, strength and courage with others like them; solve our common problem and help others with a compulsion to lie. We aren't alone!

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Please help!!

Tomrayd86
Tomrayd86

I need help!!! I can't do this alone I have lied and lied all through my life and I want to stop I don't know where to turn I have destroyed so much in my life cause of my lying. Please someone tell me what I can do this is the first time I have ever said this our loud in a sense. I am in love with my fiance and she knows I have lied and I want to be a better man for myself and for her, what can I do?



 
Steve27519
Steve27519
You seeing it's wrong and not wanting to go on is a very big step. You can't change what you've done, you can only stop things from happening again.

I'd say confess, repent to her, and stop.
Jackrabbit
Jackrabbit
Came clean to my wife after 5 years. Not entirely sure if we make it out of this one together but what I can say is you need to do this for you. It can't be for her. You have to make the choice AND stick with it even if she decides to not.

I ended up entering myself in to treatment. Not lying takes a ton of work and seeking professional help is definitely my advice if you haven't been able to stop yourself.