Liars Anonymous Community Group
A support group to provide those with a compulsive addiction to lie a place to share hope, strength and courage with others like them; solve our common problem and help others with a compulsion to lie. We aren't alone!
You know, wheather I blame my situation or the state I am in, I seem to never want to take responsibility you see, while I continue, want to point blame in every other postive direction, I seem to always forget myself. I am not saying that having something at your fingertips makes cheating more elusive than if it were not, but you know I really want to offer my best foot forward, even if I don't always do it. But what is this about, it is about continously forging material to get by. Why, because I am lazy and it is easier not to. I want to always recognize when culpability is not on my side, this is not one of those instances, however much I may want it to, I have to look in the mirror and ask myself if what I want is really what I want. Wow, who know profound thoughts, would still come full circle on environments like these.
You hit the nail on the head. Why take responsibility if you can blame otherwise? BUT you did just admit here that you slipped up, That is admittance and taking responsibility for your actions. It can't undo the lie-but it makes you think about it. I myself am so thankful for finding this group...there's no judgement we're all in the same boat. We have an addiction..one of which is so powerful and strong that its damned hard to fight. But I'll offer you a suggestion that I've started trying - you can post and 'talk' out loud here...Look at yourself in the mirror every single day and speak the same words to yourself out loud. Hear yourself say them, then ask yourself is everything I said today truth? or in the morning ask yourself if I lie who gets hurt and do they deserve it (that includes yourself)? Stay strong!