Yes..ya are a dumbass.

Why?

Well..'cause....when I saw this here post..I thought..poor T..he's having a bad, bad time of it..
I bet I have an email ttalkin' to me..
His friend who loves him..
So that he's not alone with his pain.
So..I checked..
And...nope.

We're here for you.
But..you have to be here for us to be here with you.

Also..
I'm pretty sure Deb belongs to a couple of break up groups...
You can get to them by clickin' on them on her homepage

Luv ya

Hey, bud..
The boss should have a couple of groups you can get to from her homepage.
I'm so damned sorry that part of life is adding to your pain.
Luvnhugs

Why didn't you text me? It's not like I've not been in your shoes. There are several good group on here, it was very comforting to realize that I wasn't going through that alone....that someone else was living through the same hell. I'll be honest though. Limit your exposure. Don't do what I did and immerse yourself within those groups. Come here, talk to me, talk to JC, talk to Shoes, talk to anyone and everyone that can get your head out of that soul sucking shit! Go see your doctor, get yourself on an antidepressant, and or some Valium. Otherwise you'll never sleep, you won't eat, you bury yourself in a cocoon of pain. It's not healthy. It's not going to help you heal. And it's excruciatingly painful. You've got enough pain in your life.

http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Breakups-Divorce/support-group

http://www.dailystrength.org/groups/divorceaftertwentyyearstogether

You should just need to click on the links but you can copy and paste if need be. I'll be texting you shortly. I know I've been distant but it doesn't mean I'm not thinking of you, or that I'm not interested in being there for my friends.

All my love....always.....

T,
I been there as well.
1 divorce that lasted 2+ years
Absolutely horrible .
Almost destroyed me

And my current situation
Which seems in a constant state of stress

Seen it on both sides of the together , not together fence

It's a rough go for sure
If I can help?
Be happy to, pm me
Peace to yea T
Be Well Friend
Michael

Aww..Deb and Michael..
Your sweet support is so touching.

How's it gong, Todd?
..I know most of us aren't here much of late..
But..we're always here.
I know you..and everyone from LMBM " gets" that.

Luv y'all
Hugzzzz
jc

JC....reading it back tonight, I think I sound a bit grouchy;) I supposed I just wasn't expecting to see that and having just gone through all this myself I know how devastating it can be. Even when you're not happy!
I just don't want Big Dog to make the same mistakes I did, which was not come here because I didn't want to bring anyone down to my emotional level. Instead I literally threw myself into a couple of group with people going through the same thing. It was so very helpful, but I needed both. I needed a support group but I also needed you guys.

Hugs! Hugs! Hugs!

Umm..
Boss..
I wasn't being sarcastic..I thought your support was sweet. Not grouchy.

T..
Wish you'd come around, Bud.

Call or text whenever you need Big Dog. Love you and here for you.
Tonna

hey all you guys.
i really appreciate all the instant and True support.
right after i wrote this i went ..............down hard.
lost it a lot.
anyhow..........this is the first i been back on here since that day i think.
my deepest thanks, my humblest apologies......and my unutterable love for true friends.
iron friends.
my mind, my computer.......and occasionally my body.are once again in sync enuff to be here again.
i am so relaxed among you.
i can actually feel my heartrate go down as i just........be..........around you guys.
was rude of me to not answer. no excuse.
you guys deserve better......and i hope o be a better friend than i have been this last year.
i love all yall............more than can be crammed into words
thankyou
Peace
t