If ur bored after a couple of months (or less) & feel like it's goin nowher, it's most likely Lust.
When, 4 no matter how short a period of time u've ben w/a person, it feels like u've always ben 2gether...thru this lifetime & past lives. If someone mistreats her u don't jus get defensive or violent, but ur heart feels like it's rippin n2. When u can look n2 each other's eys, brush lips...touch cheeks & feel jus as satisfied as if u'd jus made Love for hours. When u lie down @ nite, wrap ur arms around her & fall asleep thankin God 4 her & knowin that if u died b4 morning u'd die fulfilled, happy & complete. That's Love.

awesome awesome definition

glad u think so. Its abslutely true. I speak from experience. I hope u feel Love this way or on a much grander scale....I figure Love only gets better.

Servus - that's absolutely beautiful! I can truly relate to your words.

In my experience, the lust in a relationship can ebb and flow, but love continues to grow over time.

Its true Love keeps growing. & it can do so many things. I never knew what Love 4 a companion was until my partner. I feel like Im bursting @ the seems every minute of everyday! My "non-accepting" family has witnessed this & cannot deny that Im the happiest theyve ever seen me & that this IS true Love & it IS possible in the same sex. Imagine...the Love of 2 lesbians (& higher power help) changed the views of an entire southern backwoods, strict-religious, Alabama family. Hmmm, that's pretty strong stuff. Lol.

Very well said, servus. If you can just look at her and your heart melts and you know you would lay down your life for this women, then I would say she has captured your heart.

I'm there all except for the lay my life down for her. But your relationship is very young yet. There is very little I wouldn't do for her. If anyone tried to take her away I'd kill them. I am not a jealous person but I seem to have a little when I have her around. She told me there was a new lesbian starting at her work. We weren't even a couple yet but I would of killed the woman if she was interested in my baby. Ok maybe not kill how about clawed her eyes out. Lastnight she told me she loved me for the first time and I almost cried. I can't believe I'm falling so hard and fast for her.

You can feel lust for a person you barely like. Love is an acceptance so complete that you couldn't imagine the person any other way. You know their faults and accept them regardless.

Love makes you want to be a better person for your love. You make efforts for them that you would never have thought of before. It's complementary. You balance each other out, and enrich each other.

Love is accepting, compromising without effort or ego, cooperating with ease, communicating clearly and with compassion and an overwhelming desire to see them happy, but understanding whatever they are going through without relating it to yourself.

I am really happy for you!