Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group
This community is for those who are in a gay marriage, and the unique challenges that may be had in a same-sex relationship. Find support and talk to others in a same-sex marriage, and get advice from the experiences of other members.
Try this website: http://www.glbtnearme.org/
Put in your zip and how many miles away you can go. (it won't search without miles.) It has all kinds of listings. I found volunteering to be a good way to meet people I have things in common with.
I also saw this for women over 50, it's not until January 2016 but it looked interesting: (don't know the age range, maybe you can call or email & ask them.)
http://www.silverthreadscelebration.org/Mission_Statement.html
There just never seems to be the right thing to say when someone you love dies.
*hugs
NYgirl