Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group
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me and my gf live in different places. i get to see her about once a month, maybe once every two months. we talk every night.
i went to see her this month, and for the first day she was fine. but then on the second day she didnt want to look at me so much as touch me. i was upset and cried in bed, she knew and wouldnt comfort me. just ignored me as though i wasnt there. i wanted her to hug me, or love me or kiss me so i turned to her and asked her wasnt she bothered? she just murmered something and turned over.
anyway, feeling awful i went downstairs, and cried for ages because i feel that she doesnt love me at all.
when she eventually got up she wouldnt look at me so much as touch me. i asked her why she didnt bother to even ask what was wrong when i was crying inches away from her. she said shes never really met anyone emotional. which i think is garbage seeing as what kind of person just ignores someone they care about when they're sobbing into their pillow next to them? thats something else. i had to practically beg her to cuddle me, and sit nextt to me, and i had to ask for kisses. it never used to be like that before. she used to be really affectionate with me.
please can anyone tell me whats going on here? we were so good together once, and now it seems to have all gone. lately she hasnt wanted to talk to me much. please can someone just shed some light on the situation. iv been thinking that maybe shes in love with someone else. maybe she never loved me at all and was just stringing me along.
somebody please please help!
i went to see her this month, and for the first day she was fine. but then on the second day she didnt want to look at me so much as touch me. i was upset and cried in bed, she knew and wouldnt comfort me. just ignored me as though i wasnt there. i wanted her to hug me, or love me or kiss me so i turned to her and asked her wasnt she bothered? she just murmered something and turned over.
anyway, feeling awful i went downstairs, and cried for ages because i feel that she doesnt love me at all.
when she eventually got up she wouldnt look at me so much as touch me. i asked her why she didnt bother to even ask what was wrong when i was crying inches away from her. she said shes never really met anyone emotional. which i think is garbage seeing as what kind of person just ignores someone they care about when they're sobbing into their pillow next to them? thats something else. i had to practically beg her to cuddle me, and sit nextt to me, and i had to ask for kisses. it never used to be like that before. she used to be really affectionate with me.
please can anyone tell me whats going on here? we were so good together once, and now it seems to have all gone. lately she hasnt wanted to talk to me much. please can someone just shed some light on the situation. iv been thinking that maybe shes in love with someone else. maybe she never loved me at all and was just stringing me along.
somebody please please help!
best wishes to u!
iv been so hurt in the past, i dont think i can do this any more. i thought she was the one
umm i need a bit of advice if u look on the advice on it u can me my question..
How yo kiss a firl somtin like that can u comment pls..thank you!
For anyone, even a friend.. or a neighbor or someone in the freakin' parking lot..... to see someone next to them crying and not doing anything ~ is a HUGE red flag about what kind of compassion and kindness lives in their soul.
She doesn't have the balls to tell you how she really feels. And I can tell you by her actions.. she feels nothing right now. And THAT coldness, lack of compassion and ability to communicate Is something she is going to have to live with until she grows up and realizes she is accountable for all her actions. (It won't be a fun ride for her.. believe me)
So cutie. Take your beautiful heart and walk away. I wouldn't even say a word to her; just move on ~ leave her in the dust. Show her what a Real Woman is all about: Show her Strength, Wisdom and Self-Love.
(((((nemesis6))))))
shes broken my heart, and i dont think i want to give her a chance to do it again.
i dont think she cares less about getting the spark back. and i cant go thru what she did to me all over again, thats why it has to end.
she was too tired to show any affection toward me, but she she wasnt too tired to walk all te way to the shop to buy ciggarettes. she loves them more than she'll ever love me.
i feel so ncredibly let down, i dont think i'll ever trust her again
You know...you're beautiful. And life will give so much joy.. one day you might not even remember this experience :O)
Just try real hard not to ever carry hate. It's poison. What others do to you will come back to them three-fold. It's just the way it works. She will suffer; she will learn.. because that's what life is all about *wink.
Take care of yourself and have faith that you have all sorts of wonderful adventures awaiting you out there :O)