Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group

This community is for those who are in a gay marriage, and the unique challenges that may be had in a same-sex relationship. Find support and talk to others in a same-sex marriage, and get advice from the experiences of other members.

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iamnioprocs 02/03/2018

Here's the thing, we were together for 3 years. Everything seems to be happy, except that sometimes I almost normally beg for her time. She's workaholic, but then I tried to understand that.

She went to Singapore to meet the man. Without even my knowledge. She just even seen zoned my messages thru viber and messenger. After 3 days, she didn't even explained. She didn't made an effort to talk everything out.

My issue was, why she didn't tell me that she was falling out of love? If i didn't confront her, she was just gonna ignore me.

It was a nightmare for me. I can't believe she did that,act cold, suddenly she didn't care about how i feel. Suddenly she changed for this man, a married man, and she thought the man was an angel.

I just don't get it why she didn't told me. . 'Coz i would be very okay to let her go if she doesn't love me anymore, or did she ever loved me anyway?

Saduser013 02/03/2018

I am sorry to hear that. That is awful. I agree with you. It wasn't fair to you for her to have left without giving you an explanation. Anything.

wakan49 02/05/2018

She had been thinking about this for a long time. She is coward and couldn't tell you. I've been through this almost exactly. The best thing I did for myself was go no contact. Take care of yourself its a hard road without closure but you can do this. Take one day at a time. Your worth more than this.

introvert61 02/06/2018

Wakan is right, your gf planned this for a good long while.
I'm sorry this happened to you, but you need to move on with your life, go no contact with her (do you live together? Is she out of the house?) and heal from this heartbreak.

ris1234 02/25/2018

That is awful. But no contact is not good because everyone needs closure at some point.

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