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Ok so pretty much everyone here knows I have a new lover and we have been doing well and just shared I love you's this weekend.(wait that might be news for here..Hey Girls she said she loved me this weekend.) Ok now that is covered. She has reminded me that my school work comes before her and if we don't work out because I'm too busy in school then she will still be a friend(UUmm friends with exes doesn't work with me) Before saying that she asked me if I ever thought we might not make it. Which i asnswered yes but I try not to it scares me. .. It scares the piss out of me to picture life without her. Please tell she is making sure I put school before her?
Please tell me she isn't preparing me for her leaving.
Please tell me she isn't preparing me for her leaving.
deleted_user
truly the only way to know is to ask her. My partner and I for the most part discuss what we are feeling and thinking. It's to early to start having these feeling of dought. She obviously casre for you very deeply and has put you first. Sounds to me like you got a good one. Enjoy it, try not to dwell on things.
NeverOver
I askeed but I won't hear back til morning. I swear if I lose her I am switching teams
deleted_user
It sounds more like she's preparing herself. School must b very important 2 u, something u take pride in & want 2 finish, & she sees that & doesnt want 2 get in the way of that, but she really wants 2 b w/u. It sounds like she's wondering if u can b serious w/her AND about ur school work & she's lookin 4 u 2 say, listen baby I got this...Im not gona let my schoolin go...u make me wana finish...ur my rock girl. Anyhoo, that's a big NO on "preparing u 4 her leaving".
NeverOver
Thanks girls maybe I can sleep tonight... i'll know her intensions in the morning
NeverOver
Thank god.. it's morning and yes I was flipping out over nothing. My baby just wants me to do well in college.
wakan49
She is being very sensible and she wants to make sure you go to school because thats what is important to you. It's a good thing not a bad thing.
deleted_user
wakan49 is absolutely right. A person who truly cares about you wants you to have your own life, your own success, and generally wants what's best for you. Sounds like she's expressing exactly that attitude, which is a very good sign that she is a positive person to have in your life.
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