Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group

This community is for those who are in a gay marriage, and the unique challenges that may be had in a same-sex relationship. Find support and talk to others in a same-sex marriage, and get advice from the experiences of other members.

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CeeCii 10/06/2015

I have a question for you all.

Is it just me or do you find that when you are befriending other lesbian women they either want to move fast and sex chat with you or they want to play these mind games with you as though they are looking for the same thing you are and when you let your guard down just a bit they back up?

Why do women in particular PLAY so many games?

Why can't they make their intention known from the gate and that way everyone involved can ACT and CONDUCT themselves accordingly?

Anybody have any ideas or opinions on this?

wakan49 10/07/2015

I don't have any ideas but I also gave up on the online sites because to me it seemed like everyone just wanted to hook up for a one nighter. I'm not into that.

marilyndawn77 10/10/2015

Me too !!! Online dating site are a nightmare. Only interested in sex & I'm looking for more. Met a more experienced woman than me and instant mutual attraction but she was up-front....If the sex wasn't top notch....forget any ideas about "developing" anything else. Broke my heart but at least she was honest.
BTW, she saw me today and wants me back...sex or no sex. Said I was such a lot of fun and a great caring confidant...??? Go figure !!
I doubt that I'll go there with her. A bit of a slap in the face.

SilentWhispr 11/05/2015

I met my partner of 17 years in a chat room on AOL. I knew her for 2 years before we decided to meet. I lived in Colorado, she on the East coast. She flew to Colorado and at the time was married to a guy. It was just as magical as it had been online and by phone. We had never had any type of sexual encounters in the 2 years we had known each other. She flew home, divorced her husband and moved to Colorado. Today We are both in our 50's and laugh about growing old together. Yes, it can be done...but i'm sure i'm one of the fortunate ones. :)

emilysun 03/30/2016

I believe most of my friends are real.

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Razor91 04/01/2016

Same thing happened to me too, just messages of wanna skype cutie? One even linked me sites to watch with her, needless to say I de activated my account, I want a relationship not a one night stand.

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