Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group
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I pride myself in the fact that i have only had 6 sexual partners. I am 33 . I don't do one night stands or booty calls. Am i out of date for our times? What is your opinions on what's too much?
I don't think the number matters. To me, the main thing is that you have healthy self esteem, treat others with respect and consideration and practice safe sex.
Enjoy Sister :O)
Personally, I am not a fan of one night stands. I have been in, what I consider, 4 serious relationships and one other that was not so serious and I was sexually active in those. I have also dabbled a bit with phone sex and webcam stuff. I'm not particularly proud of that, but I'm not really ashamed either....it just was what it was. Would I do it again? It would depend on the circumstance.
When I become interested in someone, I do NOT want to know all about their sexual history. I DO want to know that they are not infected with an STD or something, but as far as knowing details and numbers of partners? Yeah, not really. When i was younger, that was something that was important to me, now, not so much.
Now, what I like as far as old fashioned is someone who will let me be chivalric.....open the car door, when walking with her, walk on the outside (or street side), give her my jacket if she is cold, etc, etc. I dig that stuff :)
I'm 34 and I considered myself "exploring". I won't say the number because I am actually ashamed of it. I started at 12...so I guess you can imagine where 22 years of no qualms over sex would put me. lol
Anyways, I respect you a great deal and you should DEFINITELY be proud of yourself. I don't even know you and I am!