Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group

This community is for those who are in a gay marriage, and the unique challenges that may be had in a same-sex relationship. Find support and talk to others in a same-sex marriage, and get advice from the experiences of other members.

1,315 Members
4,919 Posts
0 Online
Lesbian & Gay
/ Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group

obessing

NeverOver
NeverOver
Ok I know my ex bff's g/f sent the email that ended my relationship with my BFF. I know this for sure 100% no doubt in my mind. I have totally excepted I lost my bff and I am moving on. But can't get over the fact that she will think forever I did her like that. How the hell do you move on from that?
NeverOver
NeverOver
finally closure on this whole issue my ex bff took all the bs off her blog about me and I did the same. Now just need to finish accepting the loss
deleted_user
deleted_user
The truth will eventually come out, give it time and ur BFF will see you for who you are and the 3rd party involved. No way in fixing the friendship?
NeverOver
NeverOver
no this is our second break up.

Hurt me once shame on you
Hurt me twice shame on me
DevonB
DevonB
Hon, my suggestion, if you haven't already done this, is to write a letter by hand. Explain the situation without placing blame on anyone and send it to her.

Writing it without pointing fingers is going to be difficult. So instead of saying that you KNOW who wrote the email. Just say it was definitely NOT you, and you don't know for certain who did, and leave it at that.

Write about what she means to you, and tell her you understand that she's been hurt, and may not rekindle your friendship. Just let her know how much you care, so that if it is the end, she knows you don't think badly of her, and would never do anything to hurt her.

Then just leave it be. It may take some time (for me it took years before my best friend and I spoke) but you never know.

Good luck, sweetie....I know how much this is hurting you.
Hugs