Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group

This community is for those who are in a gay marriage, and the unique challenges that may be had in a same-sex relationship. Find support and talk to others in a same-sex marriage, and get advice from the experiences of other members.

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Trichster724 09/05/2017

I've never been a very sexual person and my new GF is very touchy feely and IDK what to do. I've just started to accept my sexuality and I've never been intimate with another woman. I'm scared I won't live up to her expectations or that I will disappoint her.

introvert61 09/06/2017

Hi, trichster...
You are probably pretty young. I suggest reading up, big time.

We've all been there, and trust me, it gets easier with time. The key is communication. Nobody should expect to be perfect the first time in, and in reality, there are many times we all have laughable moments. Sex should be fun, so don't take it too seriously. You will work things out.

Trichster724 09/07/2017

I'm 21 so I am pretty young. I've been sexually involved with guys in the past but never with another girl. She always tells me not to worry but i'm so afraid i'll screw it up that I keep turning her down whenever she wants to be intimate

introvert61 09/10/2017

I was with guys first...give girls a chance, Trichster. Just let yourself go. Be honest, ask for what she needs, tell her what you need.

I swear, with time, you can have amazing experiences. It's all about communication. Don't be afraid to ask for what you need, or what she needs.

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