You need to have a candid conversation with her. Tell her what your feelings are and ask her what is it about you that makes her think that you are not gay and are just confused?

Try starting there and see what she says.

My question to you is.....Are you confused? Do you really even know? The reason I ask is because at some point before coming out there can be for a lot of women confusion. So sit with yourself and get clear about your own true feelings and than talk things over with her.

Good Luck

Thank you for your reply. To answer your quantion first , not it not just being curious I have known I am gay for a long time just my own fears of family rejection stoping me form coming out.

I have told her this she still don't believe me . She think because I have been with guy that I'm just playing around. It's not the case men where just to keep the status quo nother was ever really there. She been with men to so I don't understand why it's different.

How good was it for 2 months?
Was there physical contact? Did you get along well? Was there lots of laughter and intimacy?

Things don't change suddenly for no reason. Women and men are the same when it comes to avoiding or hiding from the truth of their feelings.

Mixed signals and backing away are clear signs that something is has gone south. Time for to stop this train in its tracks and do some reality checks. It could be after 2 months she's realized things aren't going to work. That's what dating is all about hon.

Talk to her. And do it before the emotional games get too intense and ruin what could at least be a great friendship.
Good luck

Thank you . Everything was amazing during that time. Physically and mentally . Once we started to be more physically it started to change, I try and be intimate with her and she moves away or rolls over but then gets mad when I don't try. It's becoming and game that I have no intention on playing with. I truly love the women just just frustrating trying to figure it out . This is all new to me . Being told you don't really want me your just confused kinda puts a damper in confidence.

I thank you for your advice every little bit helps

She playing hard to get because she's testing you. Two months is a short time keep trying if you really love her. She may come around and feel you really mean what you say or do. Prehaps she was hurt in a previous relationship try to get her to talk about her own past a little, that may give you some in sight. Good Luck.

Thank you njmisty . I hope your right.

I have some questions. 1. you say you have been together two months, and three weeks ago things became different. So things were okay for 5 weeks? 2. you don't say how experienced your friend is, or how old she is. 3. she is accusing you of being straight, are you being a pillow queen? (if you don't know what that is look it up). 4. how open are you in public?

My take on this is that your girlfriend isn't giving you the time to discover yourself. I don't see, given your age, how you could possibly be certain about yourself in this time frame. You have been straight your whole life, Why? Your girlfriend is telling you, you're confused, well no kidding. Anyone with your history would be. She isn't being very thoughtful, or kind. You need to talk to her again, your question to her being, "Yes, I am confused, yes I am discovering myself, yes it may take a bit of time. What I know is that I feel a very deep connection with you, it is a feeling that I have never known, and I want to make love to you. Are you willing to put in the time and effort to help me through this time?" Of course, you need to edit this question, to be truthful. In the editing process there may be clues...just sayin' Good luck, and I wish the best for you. Hugs.

To answer your questions :I am 100% open in any seting , she is 34 and she didn't come out public tell 30 she has more experience. She been with both men and women and was married 3 times . I'm not a pillow queen I'm more then willing to do anything with her. But there is nothing happening either way.
I may have just came out but I am not confused .

I thank all of you wonderful people for giving advice to a compete stanger.
Even thought all of it as of today she has givin up on us and I found the true reason for it all. She has told me that she can not even trough trying get over the fact I have never been with a women.

So that is where I stand. It truly hurt to hear these words. As someone who came fully out with out a second though when I new the time was right and that I was ready and have fully excepted myself. I can't imagine walking away for this reason. I would want to suport that person I care about trough this stage in there life, we have enough obstacles in out way in this world we should suport one another have help people who need it through.

So I just need to keep telling myself that it's ok . I'm strong and I would be giving these hard times if I could not handle them.

so I thank each of you for your suport and advice .

None of this has anything to do with you. Sounds like she is just one of those people who can't commit to a relationship.

I'm beginning to see that. Still don't make it Suck any less. .