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SO I let this woman back into my life despite my thoughts and feelings that she has been telling others that she isn't with me and that she isn't really attracted to me sexually. BIG MISTAKE!!!!
So she has this little penpal that is blowing up her phone everytime I get home from work. So today we are getting ready to play cards and her phone keeps going off. I said babe tell that TROLL to stop texting you we are getting ready to spend some time together (Jokingly) I leaned over to her, she was sitting next to me and caught a glimpse of what the girl had texted her. She responded to my GF's text (EX) of making her a cup of joe and she replies it's coming right up baby! I said to my GF, why is your penpal calling you baby? SHE BLOWS completely up at me, yelling, screaming, cussing, about how she didn't know and that it was nothing and that she was going to ask her why she said that to her and runs downstairs yelling and screaming at me about violating her space etc.
Needless to say it became heated. I asked her to leave because she was being disrespectful AND I reminded her that I don't go off on her when she is reading over my shoulder, my texts, my fb messages and asking who is that on the phone with me.
REGARDLESS of whatever is going on between her and her penpal Geri, GERI can deal with her now. I am moving on. I don't need that type of DRAMA in my life. I wanted to be with her and loved her but at the same time, I always felt like she was being dishonest with me so NOW I AM FOLLOWING MY GUT TO THE HILT!
She left because I asked her too and she made it clear to me that she was going to be with GERI and that she may even move where GERI is and I told her GOOD LUCK I wish her well because GOD knows I aint holding onto no one that don't want to be held onto!!!!
Am I hurt? Not right now, I am too ANGRY to be hurt. Maybe later, but the ANGER and the HURT will not let me ALLOW her back into my life despite what she says or comes up with later! Maybe GERI will do US all a favor and come SCOUP her ass up and I won't have to worry about her texting and calling me because she is lonely and feeling isolated! Only time will tell in the meantime, I really am going to take better care of me because WHAT I DO KNOW IS.......I am a GOOD woman and the LOVE of my life will manifest when I am truly ready!!!
So she has this little penpal that is blowing up her phone everytime I get home from work. So today we are getting ready to play cards and her phone keeps going off. I said babe tell that TROLL to stop texting you we are getting ready to spend some time together (Jokingly) I leaned over to her, she was sitting next to me and caught a glimpse of what the girl had texted her. She responded to my GF's text (EX) of making her a cup of joe and she replies it's coming right up baby! I said to my GF, why is your penpal calling you baby? SHE BLOWS completely up at me, yelling, screaming, cussing, about how she didn't know and that it was nothing and that she was going to ask her why she said that to her and runs downstairs yelling and screaming at me about violating her space etc.
Needless to say it became heated. I asked her to leave because she was being disrespectful AND I reminded her that I don't go off on her when she is reading over my shoulder, my texts, my fb messages and asking who is that on the phone with me.
REGARDLESS of whatever is going on between her and her penpal Geri, GERI can deal with her now. I am moving on. I don't need that type of DRAMA in my life. I wanted to be with her and loved her but at the same time, I always felt like she was being dishonest with me so NOW I AM FOLLOWING MY GUT TO THE HILT!
She left because I asked her too and she made it clear to me that she was going to be with GERI and that she may even move where GERI is and I told her GOOD LUCK I wish her well because GOD knows I aint holding onto no one that don't want to be held onto!!!!
Am I hurt? Not right now, I am too ANGRY to be hurt. Maybe later, but the ANGER and the HURT will not let me ALLOW her back into my life despite what she says or comes up with later! Maybe GERI will do US all a favor and come SCOUP her ass up and I won't have to worry about her texting and calling me because she is lonely and feeling isolated! Only time will tell in the meantime, I really am going to take better care of me because WHAT I DO KNOW IS.......I am a GOOD woman and the LOVE of my life will manifest when I am truly ready!!!
know that you deserve better, you deserve someone who will love you for you and ONLY you...and now you can move on but more importantly to realize that you have to take care of you! ((HUGS)) you are brave and strong for moving on to better things..good for you!
It does hurt but at the same time, I'm not big on being where I am not TRULY wanted and desired!