Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group
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Greetings Y'all,
So, I need advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I recently started hooking up with someone about ten years my junior who turns out is a bit less experienced in the bedroom than I am. What I would like particular input on is for those of you that have transitioned from not being used to any penetration (no fingering, strap-on,etc) to being able to tolerate and then ideally grow to enjoy these things.
Prior to being with women, I was with a fair amount of men and used to penetration. I absolutely adore being fingered and can handle a fair amount in me. This new partner of mine when i tried to finger her with me middle finger (and I believe I went in pretty gently) found it to be way too much and I slid out right away. I haven't come across this issue with a woman before and have mostly been with experienced older women.
I am curious if anyone newer to penetration/ sex has come across this issue where it hurts at first to be fingered? How did you work with this?
I welcome any and all thoughts- thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So, I need advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I recently started hooking up with someone about ten years my junior who turns out is a bit less experienced in the bedroom than I am. What I would like particular input on is for those of you that have transitioned from not being used to any penetration (no fingering, strap-on,etc) to being able to tolerate and then ideally grow to enjoy these things.
Prior to being with women, I was with a fair amount of men and used to penetration. I absolutely adore being fingered and can handle a fair amount in me. This new partner of mine when i tried to finger her with me middle finger (and I believe I went in pretty gently) found it to be way too much and I slid out right away. I haven't come across this issue with a woman before and have mostly been with experienced older women.
I am curious if anyone newer to penetration/ sex has come across this issue where it hurts at first to be fingered? How did you work with this?
I welcome any and all thoughts- thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Maybe ask her what she would prefer or talk about what would make it more comfortable for her.
good luck!