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I dont know if what I am going through is right. So any opinions or advice would be great.
Last weekend my gf and me officially broke it off. Or so I think. She gave me so many mix feelings and still is. We were together for a year and 3 mths. I have to admit that I felt the break up coming. Anyways, like I said she kept giving me mixed signals. First she said she didnt think she could be with anyone, then she said she didnt want to break up she just needed a break. Now the big thing is she txt messages me every other day. And she has called me hun and most of her message end with xoxox's. I dunno how to take this...and its very hard for me to believe that there isnt anything behind it.
Plus, recently I have begun talking with another gal. Shes in Ohio. She admitted to me she feels she is falling for me. Again, I dont know what to do. I do think I like her alot. But I am scared to say I am falling for her. Because I dunno if I should even consider.
So lost...anyone out there that can give me a hand in all this. It would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
AT
Last weekend my gf and me officially broke it off. Or so I think. She gave me so many mix feelings and still is. We were together for a year and 3 mths. I have to admit that I felt the break up coming. Anyways, like I said she kept giving me mixed signals. First she said she didnt think she could be with anyone, then she said she didnt want to break up she just needed a break. Now the big thing is she txt messages me every other day. And she has called me hun and most of her message end with xoxox's. I dunno how to take this...and its very hard for me to believe that there isnt anything behind it.
Plus, recently I have begun talking with another gal. Shes in Ohio. She admitted to me she feels she is falling for me. Again, I dont know what to do. I do think I like her alot. But I am scared to say I am falling for her. Because I dunno if I should even consider.
So lost...anyone out there that can give me a hand in all this. It would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
AT
It sounds like you have a confusing situation on your hands... This girl you broke up with, do you still have feelings for her? I know you're confused by her actions, and sometimes people try to make you feel that way. They are scared to leave, and want to try new things but you're a security blanket of sorts. She may not want to separate you completely in case things don't work out for her, you know? By keeping you close with those "xoxo"s she is keeping a door open. If I were you, I would give myself a chance to see what's out there... Keep in touch with this girl from Ohio, you never know what could happen. I just wouldn't want to be someone's "Plan B" you know? I don't know for sure if that's what she's doing but that's what happened to me. I wish you all the best, and keep your heart open!
Love,
Mahadra