Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group
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We broke up over three years ago because she cheated with another women. Now she is engaged to
a guy she met. I don't understand how you can all of a sudden go from two women to being engaged to a man. As long as she is happy. Anyway she told him about our relationship and he seemed fine with it and we were hanging out then all of a sudden it stopped. When he is around I'm not invited over, we really can't hang out that often and when she talks to me on the phone and he walks in all of a sudden she has to go. I get the message but she hasn't told me he dosen't want me around. I don't know how to comfront her letting her know that I know he dosen't want me around without her getting defencive, but i need to know.
a guy she met. I don't understand how you can all of a sudden go from two women to being engaged to a man. As long as she is happy. Anyway she told him about our relationship and he seemed fine with it and we were hanging out then all of a sudden it stopped. When he is around I'm not invited over, we really can't hang out that often and when she talks to me on the phone and he walks in all of a sudden she has to go. I get the message but she hasn't told me he dosen't want me around. I don't know how to comfront her letting her know that I know he dosen't want me around without her getting defencive, but i need to know.
Either way, you don't need to get defensive to have this conversation. Just say, "Hey, these are the things I have noticed in the past couple weeks, is there something we should talk about?"
Maybe just giving her a chance to explain herself will give you some insight into what is really going on.
Good Luck,
Owl