Hi guys i am having difficulty dealing with the pain of breaking up with my girl friend after 2 years together.
i broke up with her yesteday, i am tired of a rollercoster relationship. we get along for 2 days and fight and argue for most of the days.
when it comes to holidays and month ends she is never with me she goes to her parents house which is in another provive because her son is there. even new years last year i spent it alone. when there is even a funeral in my family she doent come to support me, but she experts me to be there for her.
i feel she does not appreciate me or even tries to priorities our relationship or fit me in into her life.
i am tired of being second thought in her life. but she claims she loves me and wants us to get married etc. i feel like an ATM more than a girlfriend.
i sometimes beg for some affection and she says she is not a mooshy mooshy person etc.
This has gone on for too long, we broke up in January she moved out and in March we made up and she moved back, hardluy a month same storry. so i came to a decision to end this relationship.
I am feeling sad, guilty etc. maybe i should help her with her rental when she moves out. maybe i should let her stay in the same flat with me even though we are not in a relationship. will doing so make things worse or better. because she keeps saying she moved to Durban for me now if i ma ending this relationship its like chucking her out on the street. what should i do, i do care about her but i cannot continue like this.
please advise/ reccomend what could i do movig forward.
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