I was at wall-mart last weekend and ran into my ex and her soon to be husband Takoda. Just to be funny we slammed carts and Takoda said "If she gets whip lash I will sue you she has a hurt back" I told him go ahead I don't have anything my brother took it all. Then just like normal people do I looked in her basket and Takoda said "that's mine I'm paying for it". He had a serious look on his face. So I e-mailed my ex letting her know how I felt about it.

Her response;
The issue with Takoda I have to be honest you have pissed me off. You take and look at every little action or comment as a direct blow to you. I honestly can tell you he had nothing against you but now he is tired of it and does not want to walk on broken glass around you wondering if he is upsetting you or hurting your feelings. I wont have it. You are my friend and I love you but you are the one that needs to adapt to him being around. I know we do not see each other that often anymore but life changes mine is busy with work and family and kids events. I have lots of people in my life that tell me I dont see them enough or at all. I am spread thin and have made a commitment to spend as much time with Michaela as I can because as of this summer I dont know where her life will take her. I have friends I havent seen in a year. I have lost friendships due to me not calling or connecting. I have to make choices. You are very important to me but I wish that you find some happiness or bright spots in your life. You have a lot to be thankful for. I look forward to seeing you tomorrow. I hope you can enjoy the party and all the craziness that I know will acompany it.

I know you have told me before to leave certain things alone but I didn't because I'm tired of people getting away with things, turning it around on me then sweep it under the carpet as if they did nothing wrong.