I don't think you need to define it or study it. Let it be. It sounds wonderful. Let it unfold naturally and enjoy every moment of it. This, my friend, is what it's all about!!!

It comes in time. Eventually, you know without a doubt. But as skirt says...let it unfold. Enjoy this...as painful as it may seem...lol.

I know how you feel...and I'm happy for you.

Congrats! ;)

I think you know in your heart,this is much more,you need to talk to her.

I am still avoiding the dreaded L word but I did admit to almost using it last week when I crawled out of bed to start my day a 6am.(I hate getting up so early when she is here) We have become a couple(FINALLY) but are still taking it slow. She knows how I feel(I think) I try to tell her everyday without using that exact word.

What is it that scares you about saying that you love her?

I have told 3 women I love them.. 2 treated me like shit most of the time th third.. well she wasn't ready for those words. I never want to see that look again. You know the how do I get out of here fast look. I am falling fast for her and nobody left me the rip cord for the parachute.

When I descovered that I'd fallen in love with my partner that I'm with now I was so affraid that if I told her how I felt I might just blow everything and loose the friendship of this truely amazing woman,but it was sufforcating me not to tell her,now looking back I' so glad that I told her how I was feeling,she is so amazing and our love for each other just keeps growing and growing.
I'd had a terrible relationship years ago and I thought that everyone would treat me the way she did,I'm so glad that I got to find out that not everyone in this world is out to hurt me.

I hope I find the same outcome. She treats me better than anyone in my life ever has. I am soo afraid of what I feel and of losing her. I have told her how I feel Kinda.. this is a passage of a letter I sent her..

Everyone has a give a shit factor. There are two ways to judge this.
First way... Is your own personal give a shit factor. This is how much give a shit about the people in your life. People on the high end you would be upset to hear if they were in some kind of trouble and you would be there if they needed you. People on the low end you have more of a sucks to be you additude towards.

Second way.. Is how everyone has you on thier give shit factor. The ones that value you high on thier factor are the ones you know you can count on. The ones who don't you wouldn't bother calling no matter what was wrong.


I went on to tell her she rated high on my give a shit radar.

interesting way of wording it,but hey if it gets the message across it doesn't matter how its said,I'll keep my fingers crossed for you,let me know how it goes.

breath slow. talk to her a lot (i know u already do) get to know everything about her. Enjoy the love feeling without saying it (if she's afraid of it) and pay enough attention so that u'll notice if she loves u too. IM SO HAPPY 4 U

In the beginning both my partner & I were afraid 2 have that word in play, but seriously weather it's ever said or not if things didn't work out wouldn't either of u be just as hurt as if it were said? I know u guys say it all the time....just not aloud. My partner & I wrote Love letters constantly...& after 2 yrs we still do. It really helped both of us tell the other how we felt without ever saying "Love". They are usually metaphoric & so rich in detail we set each others' hearts aflame. In one of my 1st letters I told her what a Beautifully intriguing creature she is & when I'm near her the air pops with electricity. She pretty much took that as I was head over heels for her. And soon everything fell into place. I think what u 2 have is Fabulous. I'm very happy for u & I hope it only gets better.