Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group
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I recently met a lady online and we have been talking every day since. She doesn't live close to me and I swore to myself that I would not get in another long distance relationship. I am finding myself really beginning to like this woman. She is very easy to talk to and has a wonderful personality. Actually if I were to be completely honest, she drives me crazy. I can't wait to hear her voice every day. I want to know all about her day. Most of the time she seems to feel the same way. There are even times when she tells me this too. Then there are the times when she says for me to remember that we are just getting to know each other. I know this is the case but it is just hard. I get mixed messages from her and I am not sure how to handle it. I don't want to push and upset her or take a chance of scaring her off, yet I really would like to know what she is thinking and feeling about where we are at. Any suggestions?
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I feel the same way as you,I've been talking online to a woman for a few months now,I find myself wanting to know everything about her,there is a huge time differnce so sometimes I'm sitting up all night because I don't want to stop talking to her,I don't supose we will ever meet,but I know my feelings are growing stronger for her every day,I'm worried about scarring her off.
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dont let distance come between you my wife and i started off online with distance between us and when we were ready we both made huge sacrifices in our lives to be with each other and we are so very happy yes we went through the what does the other really want feel and need but we kept talking generally and then the gates of protection finnaly opened up and things were revealed and we worked through them together when i moved to be with her i had nowhere to live but a few hours of persistence and searching i found somewhere all be it a grotty bedsit with no door on in a housefull of men but it was warm sheltered and safe and by the end of the week i had found somewhere better and eventually i found the perfect place to live untill we got a place together things will happen when the time is right dont try to rush things remember where you are in the relationship the biggining is a wonderfull place and things will become clearer as time goes on so i wish you well
SwtLdyLvr
Thank you both so much for your replies. Black, I know exactly how you feel and squirely thank you also for your encouragement and advice.
SwtLdyLvr
Well, thank you again for your advice and kind words...Just finished talking to my 'friend' and seems she was just using me for some sort of game. It is over and done. Any idea of what she was thinking or feeling just got answered without my having to ask.
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