I'm new to this forum.  Looking to get some advise.  I am 44 known my wife now for 14 months we have only been married for two months now.  When we started dating things seemed great she was affectionate.  After dating for two weeks we had sex.  We have had no intimacy since.  I fell heard over heels.  Why..many ask that.  I just can't answer that.  I wish I could.  

I learned a few months into our relationship she was having financial issues..and so we moved in together in my house.  I figured our lack of intimacy/connection faded due to stress.  

She's been living with me as well as kids for nearly a year.  The only financial responsibility is food for her that's it I pay the rest.

I expressed my concerns to her a few months after she moved in.  She told me she has no libido.  Possibly due to health reasons.  I got upset asking why would you want to get into a relationship if you have no libido.

She portrayed herself as romantic in the beginning.  I'm so confused.  We then get in her car and she has the song by the isles brothers..between the sheets it comes on.

Am I crazy or over sensitive.  You think I'm being used?  I question her being gay..who wouldn't.  Is it possible for a woman with no libido to.want to listen to songs like that?

Please any advise would be great.