Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group

This community is for those who are in a gay marriage, and the unique challenges that may be had in a same-sex relationship. Find support and talk to others in a same-sex marriage, and get advice from the experiences of other members.

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Lilith11 09/14/2010

Last week my spouse had a Respiratory Arrest, she is now off life support and in a regular room. Her first words were I love you the second was I am sorry you saved me. I just want to be set free. I am in such pain mentally and emotionally. I have been taking care of her for the past 5 years, she has progressive MS, Lyme disease and Dementia.Our role as lovers changed so many years ago, we love each other but it is different, It is caregiving and care receiver. I will be alone soon, I feel the pain already.
Altheia

deleted_user 09/14/2010

Thoughts and Prayers are with you at this time, hope the peace of God gets you thru this very difficult time

deleted_user 09/14/2010

i'm so sorry Lilith... i know how deep your pain must be.. your partner will find peace soon and a place where no pain exists anymore... my thoughts and prayers are with you!! BIG HUG

deleted_user 09/15/2010

You are a wonderful person. For you to take care of your spouse like you have is very admirable. Love knows no bounderies. We are here for you when you need to talk/vent. God has and will continue to bless you.

deleted_user 09/15/2010

You are such a beautiful soul and I can only imagine the pain you are in dear one. ((long hug)) Neither of you will be alone when this journey is over. Have faith that you both will be set free to new more beautiful place one day; and all the beautiful spirits that surround you both now will be there supporting and guiding you.

Stay in touch and remember to take care of yourself spiritually and emotionally every hour of every day.

deleted_user 09/19/2010

thoughts and prayers.

deleted_user 09/19/2010

YOU have moved me to tears and are an inspiration to so many of us. May the Universal power of Pure Love guide you, nourish you and carry you through this rough storm....BIG HUGS

deleted_user 09/20/2010

Im so sorry~ please take care of you in all this and remember she will always be with you in spirit if/when you are no longer together in person,,,,, please know you have friends here who are here to support you and who care, blesings and sending you serenity and a peace beyond understanding,,, hug,

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