I define myself as pansexual, meaning that I am attracted to girls, guys, and transgender people. Recently, I got into my first real relationship with a girl, and it is definitely something new. I did not know how many feelings would be involved that I have not tapped into yet. It is kind of overwhelming, but I am also in absolute bliss.  I am falling hard for this beautiful woman.  I just wish she saw herself the way I see her. But anyways, last night my girlfriend told me that even though I am pansexual, I am in a gay relationship.  But honestly, I don't feel that way.  I feel like I love who I love and I do not need a label for it.  She is also very intimidating, and I did not know how cautious I have to be to not hurt her feelings.  This is all so brand new to me.  I have two moms and I know how lesbian relationships work, but I did not know everything about it. I feel like I am in over my head sometimes, but I also feel very loved. I guess what I'm getting at is that I need some advice.