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how to approach someone

peixi
peixi
i'm very shy, extremely shy and very insecure about myself, so how do i go and ask someone out?
deleted_user
deleted_user
well honestly, it depends on how well you know them...and the atmosphere your in...i suggest casual conversation and if the conversation goes well ask for their number or ask if they would like to have a cup of coffee sometime....
Anyse
Anyse
Forget about any "goal"! Just talk a bit and politely suggest that the person you are interested in if they would like to get together for "a cup." Just mindless, or meandering, chatting between you and this person will tell you all that you need to know. Just remember to take your time. There's no "deadline" when meeting people. Don't "create" expectations and just "let it be" for, whatever happens, that is what it will be. You can't "make" things happen, you just need to be ready when things do happen.

Take care, OK?
deleted_user
deleted_user
both sounds like awesome advice.... nothing more to add except that if nothing else throuh conversation if nothing comes of it then friendship then you have a new friend... which in itself is awesome,,,,, have a wonderful day,
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