Im not sure I wasnt ever not out. I knew from a young age I was into females, and so i followed that path from he start, I dont really have a coming out story, when I woul tell someone they would say ahh i knew that, Im butch tho and so in high school i was the sports person the tomboy, and joined the army then from there drove semi,,, etc~ I cant say I was ever fem, and maybe thats why ppl assumed, its an interesting topic tho...

I tried to come out in creative ways on my shoe i wrote bi pride nd put sticker hearts for the bi flag on it.. (i went from bi to lez)

I was forced to "come out" on my sweet 16, though i only came out as Bi. it was tough. but now tougher cause i am married to a man and im a lesbian. wtf was i thinking......i didnt take the time to completely figure out who i am.

Yes coming out is very hard and I am still struggling with it.
I borrowed my mothers cell phone cause mine was down and well my girlfriend left a voicemail on it and well come to find out I thought I deleted the voice mail and I didnt so when my mom got her phone back she her the voice mail from my girl friend saying how she has loved me for 8 years now and only wants to be with me .....

So that is how I came out to my mom... about a month later I then told my mother that I wanted to be with my girlfriend forever and that I wish to spend my life with her. We cried she tried to talk but we dont do well with talking even though we are very close. I then wrote my sisters letters to them to let them know I didnt want to hide anymore. They both are married to men and have or plan to have children. So scared they would never want to talk to me again but they didnt push me away. I still want to tell my grandparents (they are my mothers parents and like my second parents) that is the part I am struggling with right now.I dont know the right way to tell them or how they will react. I know ever since I have told my mother she hasnt fully been the same with me or my girl friend. I dont know how to even bring that up with my mother with out starting a fight cause I know this is also very hard for her as it is for me.
Sorry that was a little long.

I just dont want to hide anymore and dont want to lose my friends or family well mainly family dont really have a lot of friends. Thanks