There is no reason to hate yourself because of something that you cannot fully control at this moment. You are going through a lot so it makes sense and it's not your fault. Suicide is definitely not the answer. I promise. If your friends are disappointed or upset with you due to a serious and life-altering disorder that you have then they don't deserve to be your friends at all. You will find a new job that you will adore. You will find different friends if you need to and people that will support you no matter what. Just hang in there and try not to blame yourself even though that might seem impossible. Things will get better and things might change, but change is good.

There is absolutely no reason to hate yourself. None at all. You are a beautiful person that is struggling right now on many levels. You will work through this. You will pick yourself up and things will start to change for the better. An amazing life awaits you Tori. Nothing can stop you from living a happy and full life. Much love to you.

This is a private conference call open to anyone that is interested in seeking help from their shoplifting behaviors. Each caller will have 5 minutes to speak. There will be a time when you can also press to talk. CAll the # below and enter the code follwed by the # sign. You must enter the code and then press # on your keypad.

712-432-3900

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http://www.theshulmancenter.com

This will be my first time calling in. I know that the Shulman center has done a lot to help recovering shoplifters. The founder was a habitual shoplifter himself ~ He offers a lot of free advice and free support groups that are active on a weekly basis! Every day of the week excepts maybe Sunday. Read this site. It has so much information. We can stop. We can recover. We can. We have to. We have got to want to. We have got to be putting forth every effort that we possibly can to get better.

Sending out hugs to every one of you. This is not who you are. This is not who you were meant to be. We will fight this fight and win.

hi hang in there
this might be long but 1st you need to see your Dr. and get help with this and he can give you names of a therphties or Psychiatrist because you will need this i been seeing one and my health Dr. also knew I needed some thing to help with the stress and anxity depression and yes I was susidedal too going though the arrest and charges lawyer court and trying to keep my job and learning alot of what I was doing hiding it from everyone even myself like it was me but not and I also abused alochol and cough syrup pm and over the court drugs pain pills pm and then my med. high blood pressure pills trying to stop all that I had to deal with and keep my job after 1st day in court just wanted to die. impluse contol and it does wire your brain in a bad way and you just keep trying to get that high from it and needing more all the time. SO PLEASE GET HELP AND LIKE ME IM FINDING OUT I MSY NEVER REALLY UNDERSTAND WHY I THOUGH OR DID SHOPLIFT
I'm now trying to forgive myself and work thought this after I get something more figure out I'm going to write to the LP office at store and police office and thank them and apology to for what I did yes I know now that they did save my life and it can get better I'm now 6 month 4days clean of shoplifting yes I'm on unsuperviced probation for 1 year court fines and fees and 30 days supended sentences jail but if I screw up I will be going to jail and it will be longer they say because I was plea bargain down it was the worse time begin arrested hand cuff search it was degrading humiliated and booked. charge and going to court need lawyer or uour really screwed and it dont stop there then try and keep my job. I'm also 45 days clean from Alochol and meds. drug abused. so please get help once you talk to your Dr. it's does help they will get you back on track