I have same feeling too. That is your nature.

It takes time, I don't know how long you been going out with him, but if you don't trust him, there has to be a reason. It takes a long time to try and understand why we feel this way. A lot of the reasons are, they give you reason to feel insecure. Such as staring down other women longer than they should, constant texting of over women, calling women, women friends, etc., but if your secure about yourself, there is nothing he can do that will make you feel this way.

It took me years to figure this out. I'm sorry I can't be of anymore help than this but what helped me is that I went to some major counseling to try and understand why I felt this way about myself. The feelings of insecurity lies within the self.

There really are no details other than the fact that he goes out with his friends that when you feel insecure, but if this was part of the deal when you got with him, then it's what you both decided.

I'm not sure how old you guys are but me and the fiance decided long time ago we don't go out with the friends one night a week, it doesn't work for us, and although now after all that we have been through we probably could do this, we feel secure in our relationship because we have defined it the way we need it to feel secure with one another.

Good luck to you.

Trust is earned. If you are feeling insecure, is there something he is doing to bring this out in you? Jealousy is not natural, and is usually based on passed experiences, current inadequacies, or toxic environments.

If your boyfriend doesn't want to be doubted and wants you to trust him, he must provide an environment where you feel secure. If he doesn't, and is doing something that makes you feel suspicious, you won't be able to overcome your feelings.

When we know a person, and they confide in us with everything, their desires, their likes and dislikes, we are in the best position to decide whether or not they are an adequate match. When you don't know a person's desires, likes and dislikes, or they keep something from you, and that could be as little as locking their phone, or something as big as not letting you into their world, suspicion will arise and grow at an immense rate, which then leads to jealous thoughts.

I'm almost 62, married to a musician, he's never cheated on me but he as of past seven years is working with women musicians. It just kills me inside. All I say to you is.....it sounds like you trust him, and it's hard to but....it sounds like you trust him. Trust...is so important and...communication is very important. Communicating true feelings isn't easy....but it is very important.....my experience speaking here but...I sure hope I've helped you in some way.

dear vivi2626
Well been there done that. me too. I have the same issues with my boyfriend. I've been seing a shrink for about a month and it's been really helpful. Please try and get professional help. They'll be able to go deeper and reach out to you in ways we won't online. If you're willing to talk, I'm all ears on Skype.
Hoping you are ok

i have the same issue and it is so hard because now its hard to believe and recieve anything that he says to me and i now have trust issues.

Too true Lenoire !