Jealousy Support Group
Jealousy typically refers to the thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that occur when a person believes a valued relationship is being threatened by a rival. This rival may or may not know that he or she is perceived as a threat. If you or a loved one may have an issue with jealousy, this community is a good place to start exploring the issue and get support. We're here for...
I really dunno how to get through this..
I don't know where the mistake lies on.
Do I have an unreasonable insecurity behavior?
Or is it my husband that don't know how to take care of my feelings?
I always think that I can't fill the void in his heart, that's why he will keep in touch with the previous women in his life.
Since last month he had been chatting with his niece almost everyday, I told him it hurts me..
It hurts me that he chats with her more often than he chats with me
It hurts me that he is chatting with his niece whole day while I am busy with my works in office, cleaning the house, taking care the pets in my current pregnancy condition.
It hurts me that he is caring for her, while I felt like an air in front of him.
We talked about it, he explained and apologized to me.
But things keep repeating itself.
I love him so much, I don't want my insecurity break the harmony.. but I can't really handle this jealousy feeling, it's killing me..
I don't know where the mistake lies on.
Do I have an unreasonable insecurity behavior?
Or is it my husband that don't know how to take care of my feelings?
I always think that I can't fill the void in his heart, that's why he will keep in touch with the previous women in his life.
Since last month he had been chatting with his niece almost everyday, I told him it hurts me..
It hurts me that he chats with her more often than he chats with me
It hurts me that he is chatting with his niece whole day while I am busy with my works in office, cleaning the house, taking care the pets in my current pregnancy condition.
It hurts me that he is caring for her, while I felt like an air in front of him.
We talked about it, he explained and apologized to me.
But things keep repeating itself.
I love him so much, I don't want my insecurity break the harmony.. but I can't really handle this jealousy feeling, it's killing me..
When you say, "I always think that I can't fill the void in his heart, that's why he will keep in touch with the previous women in his life."
Is he in touch with previous women in his life? His niece is a relative, and I can understand you're jealousy around him giving her more attention then you, but is there more to this story?