Jealousy Support Group
Jealousy typically refers to the thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that occur when a person believes a valued relationship is being threatened by a rival. This rival may or may not know that he or she is perceived as a threat. If you or a loved one may have an issue with jealousy, this community is a good place to start exploring the issue and get support. We're here for...
The problem is my sister is the type that is very sexual and she takes pride in having as many men as possible. She has slept with my ex's, taken her clothes off in front of my ex's, and it was years ago, but the problem is that because it happened I can't seem to let go. Years ago my sister told me she slept with my first crush. So I never went after him. Now she and he are both saying it never happened. He said he doesn't know her and she lied, and wanted to talk about it. I, being childish, refused. So now he wont talk to me at all. I'm not sure if he is just angry and needs space or if he just doesn't want to talk to me at all. So yesterday I accused her of talking to the guy I'm currently talking to because just last week she tried texting him. She also mentioned how cute he was. She now says she doesn't know him, and has enough men she doesn't need him too. I don't believe her and we are now not speaking. What I need help with is getting over the jealousy I have and the mistrust because how will I ever be with anyone when I am going to assume they are going to sleep with her. By the way, her body is incredible and mine is out of shape, and in process of changing. What should I do?
And if she says they're your ex's why should it matter. Say because you and that guy obviously had a connection and to have her sleep with him is painful..
You're not jealous, you're acting like a human being.
You need to show your sister that she should think about your feelings before possibly breaking your heart.