Well we had a good long talk about things and his "odd" behavior was a result of his combat "issues". And being that i'm a vet, I understand. We decided to seek counseling together and today he has come to my pain management support group with me at the VA. He said that he will participate in the group with me every week for now and for the next 9 weeks. I am also in the process of setting up anger management one on one that he will participate in with me as well. Originally all this was set up for me and my conditions, but we talked about everything and he wants to be by my side for this. I believe that this counsellings will help him as well. I think this is a beginning for what will be a long but worth it road for the both of us.
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