Insomnia Support Group
Insomnia is a symptom, rather than a disease, and is characterized by inadequate quantity or quality of sleep. People with insomnia complain of difficulty falling or staying asleep, which results in significant impairment of daytime functioning. Insomnia is categorized as transient (shorter than one week), short-term (one to three weeks) or chronic (longer than three...
Good luck and you are wise to not want to develop a dependency on sleep meds.
Don't stress, when the body is tired it will sleep.
I have a couple of bad nights during the week and it's gotten to the stage where i don't care if i sleep.If i get to sleep I'm lucky that i was able to get some sleep.
Good luck and gentle hugs.
It's important for you to know and recognize you probably ARE sleeping some....even when you think you're not. According to my sleep disorder dr, when we "think" we're not sleeping, we underestimate how much we actually are sleeping. He explained that if he hooked me up to an EKG to measure my brain waves, that he would see sleep (maybe only stage 1 or stage 2) where I think I'm totally awake, hearing everythings, aware of my surroundings, noises, just having my eyes closed etc. Your body IS getting some sleep---even when you think it's not.
You must also accept that your body is designed to sleep and will in fact get what it needs with or with you....with out you means that you sleep----but your brain's interpretation is that you have not.
You do not need 7 or 8 hours to sleep or function. In fact, many of us on this board do just fine with as little as 4 or 5 hours sleep. Not getting what you consider to be "adequate sleep" will not hurt you. You will not die, or get sick or have other health complications. You'll just be tired the next day...and maybe a little more moody. That is OK.
These kinds of problems sometimes take a while to work out. You need to try to stop worrying about it and just try to relax and accept the facts. You were sleeping fine before....you will sleep fine again.
Rather than turning to sleeping pills, I would HIGHLY encourage you to try CBT (Cognitive Behavior Therapy)http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/insomnia-treatment/sl00013. Here is a link to relatively inexpensive version online you can try yourself (www.cbtforinsomnia.com). I actually first got this same plan from my sleep disorder doctor (pulmonologist) who studied one year at Stanford's sleep disorder medical center. I would highly encourage you to try this first---before going to sleeping pills. Let me warn you, this will take a few weeks. It's not an instant fix---it takes time. The sleeping pills may provide immediate relief from your symtom, but will only prolong the condition. What you need to do is train your body to reduce the arrousal/stress/anxiety and increase the sleep drive. This IS what is done through CBT. Sleeping pills might provide a respite, but the problem will remain behind the sleeping pill. Don't get me wrong, though, I'm not against sleeping pills----in fact, I'm on them myself---but I really wish my PCP would have told me to do CBT before perscribing Ambien. I've been struggling now over 2 months with this and I really feel it might have been so much more short-lived if I would have NOT gone down the Rx route. And now....even WITH the Ambien and CBT, I'm only getting about 4 or 5 hours. I know there are MANY of us on this board who take sleeping pills and still only get 4 or 5 hours sleep---although some are blessed to get more.
I hope this helps and wish you much strength and encouragement. You CAN do it! This will pass.
~Brook
I often feel like I didnt sleep but thanks to my wife, I'll ask her if I was sleeping and she'll tell me she heard me snoring, putting things into perspective. Other times I'd remember a dream and discount the sleepless night farce.