Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
For those of you who have dealt with cheating and forgiven your spouse or your spouse cheated and a child resulted of that affair. I am curious how have you overcome this? Did your marriage relationship survive? Was it not bareable? For others who have been cheated on and did not continue the relationship how did you move on when your SO is constantly there in contact wanting you to get bAck. How do you overcome the hurt? I’ve been doing better but every once in a while I feel the exact same way I did the night I found out. I feel like someone ripped my heart out can’t breathe and I scream and the pain suffocates me. I no longer cry as much and it’s nearing 1 year but looking how to move forward. I run and very busy with my kids and active, but that alone time my mind just rambles. Hoping for those who have experience and wisdom can share their guidance.
I stop myself from the internal arguing attempting to justify why I left her for her cheating. I don't need to win or be right its over and done.
I know the cheating has nothing to do with me or my character.
Its only been 3 months since I broke it off with her, and she begged, texted, cried, called over and over for the first two months.
I know i have to forgive her and myself to heal, my health and well being is more important.
The frustrating thing is our family's are so close that when the holidays get here I will have to be strong enough to tolerate the being in the same places as them. I want to be at a place where it does not impact me being around them. I have a good support team and family.
I am better, from the first days where I broke down on the hour, to daily, to now only once in a few days.