Hi all,My world came crashing down one month ago when my wife sent me an email stating that she had an affair and that it was with a coworker.I suspected for a couple months prior that something was going on and continually asker her if she was having an affair and she denied it until the guilt got the best of her.We had an awesome 12 year marriage! she was my best friend,soulmate and everything i ever wanted in a woman.I still want to make this marriage work and get help for the both of us.She says she doesnt know why she did what she did because she loves me very much.she says to give her time to figure it out and i have. She travels alot and the person she had affair with she see's regulary and they spend alot of time together since they work together.I have begged and pleaded with her that the only way our marriage will work is if she resigns from her job immediately,but she refuses too.I have completely been destroyed from top to bottom and she continually apologizes for her actions, but says she is hurting as well for what she has done.I know she doesn't want to lose me, but she has chosen her career over me.i'm at a point right now where i should just file for divorce and move on. i've been an emotional wreck now for a month!
Hello all. I'm 28, married and a mom of 2 young kids. My husband and I have been married for almost 4 years and together 6 in total. I met a guy online in October of 2018 and I flew out to meet him in November of 2018. Crazy, I know. He's also married with a young child. Long story short, we have both found that we have fallen for one another, but being together really isn't a forseeable option....
I asked my husband to stop his affair with the other woman He followed me but now he is treating me like a roommate. What should I do?