Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
My H and I are trying to work things out, we see a councelor and things are going as well as can be expected...but he cheated on me with my best friend. I just dont know how to get over what SHE has done to me. Needless to say I cut all ties with her but I keep on thinking almost obsessing obou how she could pretened to love me and be there for me when she was part of the problem...I almost feel her betrayal is worse because at least my H was an ass to me during his affair and she was all loving friend telling me how much my H loves me and all the while trying to convince him to leave me....(I saw her texts to my H). I know that he is the one married to me and that he is responsible but did she not also have an obligation to me? I even told her that I thought he was having an affair I told her when he was cold to me...I did what I think most of us do with their best friend, I spilled my heart out to her and she was probably laughing at me the whole time...How do I deal with that? The worst part is that I had a feeling that it was her the whole time and I did not trust my instincts and I even felt guilty about thinking it....
she does have a responsibility for her part in it as she knew you were married and all..sounds to me like she is all out for her and move on..
infidelity is hard enough to deal with but in your situation is so much harder as the person who you look to for support was also the one hurting you..
Take Care
NO more woman allowed in my house again either!
PLEASE trust your instincts next time...us woman have that a lot stronger an we choose to ignore it(i did too) next time i have a bad feeling about something, im NOT going to let it go, no matter whos involved! My best wishes to you *HUGS*
I went through the same thing you did. She was my friend of 20 years. Married to H for 10.
It's still so painful after 18 months I can't even begin to express how I feel. H and I are working things out and trying to save our family. It's just so hard the double betrayal. I feel for you and wish you all the best.
Reena
Be glad you are rid of her.
But, any woman out there who would have an affair with a married man is crazy.... She doesn't honor womanhood and is a shame to all of us....
I had many chances to run around on my husband with married and single men and I wouldn't do it... I have a very good friend who is a widow and she was ask out by married men, and she told me that she would never do that to another woman....
So all those women who are out there having affairs, should be branded with a very huge A like they did in the early part of this country.... Maybe an example of having to wear it around all the time, would be enough to make them think about it...
Probably wouldn't help much, because women and men don't have any morals these days...
My prayers and hugs to you!!