Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I just found out on Sunday my husband i cheating on me, I confronted, fought, cried all that crap happened.
Right now, i've told him - he messed it up, and he should fix it. In the meantime, i'm taking time off, and do things that are going to make me happy. So I'm on the "ME" time, and he can't interfere in my life.
That aside, tonite we have to have drinks/dinner with a couple of friends (guys and their girlfriends) as make our appearance as a couple. And these friends were present at our wedding (how funny). So we can't say we can't attend the dinner, and at the same time, I can't go public about my H's infidelity.
So I want to wear something to make my husband feel very very bad, and make him realize what he had with him and what he missed. I want to make him regret, and make him see that I have options and i don't need to stay with him.
As for myself, i'm pretty faced and a good figure with the right curves. Should I wear a short dress, or something which shows my cleavage? I don't want dress slutty, but i want to be classy sexy so other men in the bar will look at me. We are going to a classy bar for drinks and dinner.
Please, I need to decide. The dinner's tonight. He hates when I wear dresses with show my cleavage. But I got good legs too. It's payback time. Please help.
Right now, i've told him - he messed it up, and he should fix it. In the meantime, i'm taking time off, and do things that are going to make me happy. So I'm on the "ME" time, and he can't interfere in my life.
That aside, tonite we have to have drinks/dinner with a couple of friends (guys and their girlfriends) as make our appearance as a couple. And these friends were present at our wedding (how funny). So we can't say we can't attend the dinner, and at the same time, I can't go public about my H's infidelity.
So I want to wear something to make my husband feel very very bad, and make him realize what he had with him and what he missed. I want to make him regret, and make him see that I have options and i don't need to stay with him.
As for myself, i'm pretty faced and a good figure with the right curves. Should I wear a short dress, or something which shows my cleavage? I don't want dress slutty, but i want to be classy sexy so other men in the bar will look at me. We are going to a classy bar for drinks and dinner.
Please, I need to decide. The dinner's tonight. He hates when I wear dresses with show my cleavage. But I got good legs too. It's payback time. Please help.
deleted_user
I would go with the cleavage, this will make him know you can have a life of your own and that other men would like to be with you, do not be afraid of him show him you can do what you want also. Dress as sexy as you like without overdoing it, just feel confident in what you wear.
hurtmomofour
I always think of my sisters rule of thumb ; go with the cleavage or the legs,never both,otherwise you will look like a common hooker...lol so thats how i chose my date night outfits
veryhurtOC
Just make him realize he screwed up. Dont sleep with tonight. Good luck to you!!
deleted_user
Try to find,the new you. Self confident and sexy. Work on you. I'm not sure if you can make him regret what he did to you but you can try like hell. Sex it up, do something different than you have ever done before. Tight,low cut dress a little longer with a sexy slit up the sides and of course some four inch heels. Go bold like red or a little sparkle somewhere on the dress. Good luck to you, I know you have a long road ahead of you. Let us know how you are doing.
caseyk
Thanks guys. I wore a black alter neck which shows cleavage and half my back was bare. I got a new glitter clutch to go out. He saw the purse and asked did you buy it for today. I told him yes. So he was like, you never bought anything when we went out. So I told him you never took me out for things like this. If you had, then I would have got a lot of this, I wore really high heels which I never wear cos they hurt like hell, but that pain is nothing to what my H has made me suffer. During dinner I was touching my friends arm, and whispering near his ear, and laughing, and not talking to my husband. We were co-workers in the past, so I was talking about our old job a lot, so my H had no idea wt we were talking. I think he realized what he lost. Then when we came home, he came to my room and started crying "I can't see u with another man, please don't sleep with anyone to get back at me". I said you don't have the rights to tell me anything. I can do what ever I want to keep me happy, and I'm taking care of myself now. I think we went to sleep crying. He sleeps in the living room. We invited the same friends for dinner on Sunday night at our home, so we need to spruce up our house and we are going to Ikea now. I'm going to wear a very low cleavage dress now. I want him to see other men looking at me. (I'm not a slut, and I don't intend to sleep with anyone, but I want my H to know I can and I have options).
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