Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I have been married for 14 years. I have 2 girls and still hopelessly in love with my wife. we are separated for almost 2 years because she wanted some time to sort out things. I moved out and don't think I have chance to go back. I still own the house. She has started other man and also involved in sex. I still want reconciliation as I think kids need a family and biological parents are best suited for that role. Am I stupid? For the sake of right upbringing and their childhood I want to turn back time and have family again, They will be kids only this once and I will regret all my life for not able to provide it to them. My wedding anniversary is coming up this month and should I send her flowers.
It's been two years. Did you agree upon a time frame with her about deciding if she wants to stay or leave? If not, don't get her opinion. Make your own timeline. Give it a couple of months and tell her so, because her indecision (well, quite frankly, she's already decided on this guy) is torturous.
The example you're setting for your girls is not good. You need to be strong and find your way and show them what it means to be a strong man, even if it means you divorce their mother. Otherwise, they will never know what to look for in a guy when they start dating. And the way their mother is behaving, well, you certainly don't want them emulating her!
Sending you support.
I don't know if after divorce I will ever can go in relationship. whether it will be trust or just my age(42) and for the kids. As I don't want them to feel that Dad loves anyone else more then them.