So my husband has been treating me much better than he used to.
It's little things but I notice them and to me they are important.
A few days ago he commented on what i was wearing "oh this is so cute, you look nice" and last night he liked the nail polish i had on my toenails.
A huge beef I had with him was that during the day he would never call. I would always be the one calling a few times a day. He would tell me it's not true I also call, and i'd say not true .i'll show you the phone bills. I dont care that you call to see why Ezpass isnt working or why the traffic is huge or why your wokers don't have what they need etc. you never call to see how i'm doing. He always ignored this. Of course i continued to call him.
Except since around February i stopped calling. It wasn't easy for me but i did it. Well guess what? He's calling me now.
He calls a few times a day. Today he's working and called me 3 times and he even messaged me to see what I was doing and if I ate etc.
Sometimes when he would be on his blaming thing we would fight because he'd say i dont do enough. I would tell him i do everything. Business things then house things but it wasnt enough. Last week we were at the doctor's and the nurse asked me if i work outside ( besides the business) I said no. so my H goes " no , no she works. She does everything she's very busy." Ok well that was a shock.
So I don't know if he finally realized he could lose me .
Things have been quiet for a year. No anxiety, sleeping really great about myself and our relationship... then out of his mouth... He’s in law enforcement.. we were talking about his work. Promotions, why would they promote one person over another. Someone was promoted before a friend of his and he said he was very good at politics. He kept talking about how dirty politicians are blah blah. I...
I am here because I am in a really bad situation and I need some advice on what to do.This is so upsetting to me I don’t think I can discuss this verbally with anyone without bursting into tears.I came here hoping someone can give me some advice, or even some words of comfort. I am feeling so sad. I am truly lost.I’m confused and my mind doesn’t stop. I really worry that I’m going to lose...