So my husband has been treating me much better than he used to.
It's little things but I notice them and to me they are important.
A few days ago he commented on what i was wearing "oh this is so cute, you look nice" and last night he liked the nail polish i had on my toenails.
A huge beef I had with him was that during the day he would never call. I would always be the one calling a few times a day. He would tell me it's not true I also call, and i'd say not true .i'll show you the phone bills. I dont care that you call to see why Ezpass isnt working or why the traffic is huge or why your wokers don't have what they need etc. you never call to see how i'm doing. He always ignored this. Of course i continued to call him.
Except since around February i stopped calling. It wasn't easy for me but i did it. Well guess what? He's calling me now.
He calls a few times a day. Today he's working and called me 3 times and he even messaged me to see what I was doing and if I ate etc.
Sometimes when he would be on his blaming thing we would fight because he'd say i dont do enough. I would tell him i do everything. Business things then house things but it wasnt enough. Last week we were at the doctor's and the nurse asked me if i work outside ( besides the business) I said no. so my H goes " no , no she works. She does everything she's very busy." Ok well that was a shock.
So I don't know if he finally realized he could lose me .
My H had a long-term affair with an older, subordinate, married co-worker. We had many D-days. My H just took his Aunderground. It wasn't until he hit bottom that things changed. He gave up his mistress and re-commited to me. Thingshave been fine for a while now. The only problem is we have no sex. Nothing. He has Peyronie's Disease. I have readthat it makes an erection...
5 years ago after a time of difficulty with my husband, I found out he had been having an affair with who I thought was my best friend. We decided we wanted to work things out, but it continued on without my knowledge for the next few months. We ended up uprooting and moving to a different country. We worked very hard to make things better and they have been. Now we have moved back after...