Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
ok I'm back. I tried to forgive and forget, and move on in our relationship. He has been distancing himself these past two weeks, intimately and other ways also.
So he says I am sleeping around at work with one of my co workers. haha, I am not sleeping around, he is. I'm sure of it, cause why would he so outright accuse me.
Last night I told him, I was done with his accusations, and said I am going to find someone else to be with, of course I also said some other hurtful things I don't want to post on here. I'm not going to find another person, I just said that to hopefully get him to leave. I don't want another relationship.
But my point is I have respect for myself and for him, why would I cheat on him. He is the one cheating. I guess I just never took care of him the way he wanted me to. I hope he finds better person, at least one he can put up with.
I love him, but I just can't put up with his accusations anymore. One of two things will happen today, I will go home after work and he will be there with a hug and a kiss, or he will be at his mom's.
Niether of us has made contact with the other one today after I left for work. I tried to call him all day yesterday and he sounded as though he didn't want to talk to me, like he was in a hurry to get me off the phone. So today he can have who ever it is that he is cheating on me with. and I will be happy all by myself. I would rather be alone than with him. That is how I feel.
He always says i'm a whore, bitch, slut, and tells me I stink, and he don't want to touch me. Well now he don't have to. I am done with him. He's rude, obnoxious and a chauvanist. I don't need this in my life.
I told him last night it's over. I hope I can stick to my guns, because I am weak in spirit and feel so lonely when he is gone. It's all i can do not to call him.
That's what I mean I don't want to be that way, I don't want to pine after him like some love sick person, I want to be strong, independant.
I fell so in love with him when we were first together, it was all I could do to stay away from him. He was like an addiction. He still is. i still love him. I would still take him back if he said we could work things out. But I see its not going to He don't know how to keep it in his pants. He a horny man. prayers are needed today. i am so lonely with out him. I love him. I know I deserve better, but when he is good, he is really good to me, romantic, gentleman, man of my dreams. But when he gets like this, I can't stand him, we only been together a year and half. so i see this going no where.
Sometimes just posting here helps me to get a better view of things. still prayers would be appreciated. hugs everyone.
So he says I am sleeping around at work with one of my co workers. haha, I am not sleeping around, he is. I'm sure of it, cause why would he so outright accuse me.
Last night I told him, I was done with his accusations, and said I am going to find someone else to be with, of course I also said some other hurtful things I don't want to post on here. I'm not going to find another person, I just said that to hopefully get him to leave. I don't want another relationship.
But my point is I have respect for myself and for him, why would I cheat on him. He is the one cheating. I guess I just never took care of him the way he wanted me to. I hope he finds better person, at least one he can put up with.
I love him, but I just can't put up with his accusations anymore. One of two things will happen today, I will go home after work and he will be there with a hug and a kiss, or he will be at his mom's.
Niether of us has made contact with the other one today after I left for work. I tried to call him all day yesterday and he sounded as though he didn't want to talk to me, like he was in a hurry to get me off the phone. So today he can have who ever it is that he is cheating on me with. and I will be happy all by myself. I would rather be alone than with him. That is how I feel.
He always says i'm a whore, bitch, slut, and tells me I stink, and he don't want to touch me. Well now he don't have to. I am done with him. He's rude, obnoxious and a chauvanist. I don't need this in my life.
I told him last night it's over. I hope I can stick to my guns, because I am weak in spirit and feel so lonely when he is gone. It's all i can do not to call him.
That's what I mean I don't want to be that way, I don't want to pine after him like some love sick person, I want to be strong, independant.
I fell so in love with him when we were first together, it was all I could do to stay away from him. He was like an addiction. He still is. i still love him. I would still take him back if he said we could work things out. But I see its not going to He don't know how to keep it in his pants. He a horny man. prayers are needed today. i am so lonely with out him. I love him. I know I deserve better, but when he is good, he is really good to me, romantic, gentleman, man of my dreams. But when he gets like this, I can't stand him, we only been together a year and half. so i see this going no where.
Sometimes just posting here helps me to get a better view of things. still prayers would be appreciated. hugs everyone.
Keep putting one foot in front of the other.
Nice.
He's accusing you of cheating when he's the one that's actually cheating.
Really nice.
sounds to me like he's verbal and emotionally abusive as hell. Seems like you need to leave this clown in the dust.
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althought it will be him moving out. and not me. the home is in my name. (sly grin) :)
My momma didn't raise no fool. I buying my own home, and have my own car, in my name, and I am working full time. So I will be ok financially and I have a lot of family and friends who are emotionally supportive. Along with DS, and I am going to sign up for comm counceling here to help me get through this.
I hope he leaves and doesn't stick around. I'm tired of all the bashing.