Infidelity Support Group

Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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jasminecr 09/06/2016

Literally feel like I'm drowning today!! It hurts more today than any other day I spent my whole lunch break crying because I have to pretend I'm fine during the work day. I'm so scared this won't ever go away I don't wanna live a life like this just need encouragement

cheating4support1993 09/06/2016

I'm sorry...what happened? If you wanna talk about it, I"m here.

newjourney1 09/10/2016

Jasmine I can tell you from first hand experience that you will be ok. I know exactly what you are going through. It get get easier. I promise. If you need to chat I am hear for you.

Stillpinkpony 09/11/2016

Betrayal is one of the most difficult things to get through. I compare it death. There are similar stages of healing as that of death.

You are mourning the loss of a life and marriage you had.

As the months go on you will have ups and downs. Moments of clarity but mostly confusion. Rebuilding after an A is possible but very hard work. Remember that rebuilding yourself is just as important as rebuilding your marriage. Yoy need to be strong enough to handle the shit storm of emotions that will be headed your way as you navigate your new normal.

I hope you're seeking counsel for this. Reading some good books on the subject can also help.

jasminecr 09/14/2016

Have any books you recommend

catskyn 09/28/2016

Tell us what happened so we can help you. I will tell you what happened to me.
I was married 5 years. My husband committed a crime and went to prison for over 2 years. I waited faithfully. lost our huge beautiful home and landed up in a Shelter with our son. We made it through that . I waited for him 100% faithful. He got out of Orison and a couple of months after getting out started using Meth!! Something new he had never done before. after just 4 months he left me and our son and after just one month of being out of the house had an affair . Went on a crime spree landed up on the news twice and is back in Prison for 3 more years.
I was shattered absolutely broken and killed inside.

DailyDayDreamer 09/28/2016

I'm new here. I'm 8 weeks in from finding out my (ex) boyfriend cheated and it still hurts. I've cried in my office and had to pretend everything was okay. I'm struggling with no contact so that doesn't help. My friends and family tell me to take it one day at a time; that's what I'm doing. Through all of the brokenness, I am slowly trying to become a stronger and better person. Take it one day at a time. It will eventually get better. Best of luck to you.

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