Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Tomorrow is my 26th wedding anniversary. Right now I am unsure if I want to wake up tomorrow or not. No worries peeps, not about to do anything stupid! I do love and honor life. I love my wife and our three children. I would never do anything to jeopardize that. It just really sucks to look back at our 25th wedding anniversary and knowing that she was in the midst of an affair that I was fully aware of at the time and made these romantic plans. And here I am today in my one-bedroom apartment thinking about tomorrow and all I can come up with is WTF! I'm sure all of you are quite aware of the saying, you never really know what you have until it's gone. Well, I lost it and now I want it back, but she doesn't know if she wants me back. Oh the irony. I know deep down that God exists, but sometimes I really wonder if he ever gives me a thought. That's ominous black cloud has been over me my entire life. In the meantime, I am here and I am breathing. I do believe that there is hope for tomorrow, but I don't want to face it without my best friend!
Not necesssaily what you want
I think it is admirable for you to say you don't know what you have til it's gone
That shows you want to own your role in a sideways marriage
Does/did she?
She cheated on you, which is major betrayal.
Did you cheat on her?
If not, then you know what you lost,- cheAter.
Cheaters are vile shit balls.
You asked if I have been unfaithful: physically, no, mentally and emotionally, yes.
She does own up to her responsibilities for what has happened between us. I have told her many times since finding out about this affair that I cannot point a finger at her because I've got three pointing right back at me. We are both guilty. She just got to enjoy it a hell of a lot more than I did. Some days, life truly can be a bitch!
"Affair " sounds lovely like something people do after brunch
Indidfety, betrayal, adultery
Is when your partner shares their gentailia with someone else unbeknownst to you while they are still sharing their genttalia with you
In today's world that means putting you at risk for stds
It is admirable that you want her to be happy
It also sounds like you may be swallowing her blame shifting...
Don't
I have gotten back into physical activities like working out and riding my bicycle which I haven't done for several years now. However, there is a hidden agenda behind that. She at the time of the affair was 47 and he was 29. Extremely physically fit.... need I really say more?
"Draw close to God and he will draw close to you."