Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Hi all, so my fiancé and I are supposed to get married in April. We've been together 5 and a half years. I love him. A few months back he told me he doesn't know if he's ready to get married and thinks it's too soon. We've been engaged over 2 years. Everything is paid for wedding wise. The past year we experimented with having an "open" relationship. I was going through some health things and I just couldn't be there for him as sexually as he needed me to be. I'm comfortable with him having sex with other partners as long as he doesn't keep secrets. A couple weeks ago he started seeing a new girl and he likes her a lot. Now he wants to push the wedding a year or not even do it because of this new shiny girl. We own a house together and have joint finances. I'm in no position to be able to leave. I also don't know if I want to leave but I can't live my life like this.
Two months before your wedding, your husband-to-be is STILL chasing new tail. You may not want it, but this WILL be your life if you chose to stay with him.
If you grant him a postponement of the wedding and wait for him to be ready to marry you, you are wasting time and missing the opportunity to meet someone who ready for a permanent relationship. There are men out there who put respect and commitment toward their partner over their selfish need for sex.
you are in a hard position, what do you truly want want are you giving up by comprising?
What would you tell your best friend to do if she came to you with this?