Okay so the last time I talked to you guys or shall I say vented. I exposed his brazen actions regarding the downstairs neighbor. My mother has always told me NEVER EVER go from SUGAR to $hit! And with that being said. I told u guys I lost my home in foreclosure and had to be out by November 30, right before x-mas. So my niece gave me her 3 bedroom apartment (She has a new job and decide to upgrade to a much nicer community) her name is still on the lease so I wouldn't have to go thru the verification process. Any-who, she resided here for about a year and a half. She was dealing with this guy and would call me every so often to tell me about her relationship with him. How she met him was he placed flowers outside her door and told her that he had been watching her and wanted to get to know her. Then one day she called me out the blue, while my ex was sitting next to me. I was pregnant at the time. She began to tell me that she had become intimate with the guy and now had a BURNING and ITCHY sensation going on downstairs in the basement. All the while she's talking to me, my CS was sitting there listening to my end of the convo. Long story short..she gave it up to the guy without PROTECTION and now she got an itch and a burn. DID I MENTION SHE HAS SEEN 5 (COUNT THEM...UNO, DOS, TRES, QUATRO, CINCO!!!!) 5 different doctors and they still haven't found what is wrong with her!!!!!! They gave her some damn ECZEMA cream and sent her home. So now let us FAST FORWARD to me moving into the apartment. I'm hanging out with her one day, we are in the car driving and she gets a phone call. It's from the guys girlfriend. She got into his cellphone while he was asleep and found out about my niece. So she calls her phone and all i hear my niece say is that she doesn't indulge in drama, that she had no idea about HER, that he approached her and she should deal with her MAN regarding the issue in lieu of calling her. So I hear the chick screaming. I am the kind of woman that will deal with THE MAN...HE IS WHO OWES YOU THE LOYALTY....AND THEY USUAL LIE TO BOTH PARTIES...my mom calls it, "PLAYING 2 ENDS AGAINST THE MIDDLE". BOY WAS MY MOTHER ONE WISE WOMAN. So me being the peacemaker. I kept repeating YOU GUYS DON'T NEED TO BE ARGUING ABOUT A NO GOOD MAN. THE NEXT THING THE CHICK SAID WAS, "TELL THAT OLD BITCH TO SHUT UP"! OKAY! WHERE DID THAT COME FROM!? Okay DS Family so that you may fully understand all the happenings. I need to let you know a KEY FACTOR IN THIS HOT GHETTO MESS I'VE BEEN DRAGGED INTO. I am 40 years old. I AM CONSTANTLY TOLD I LOOK LIKE I'M IN MY MID TWENTIES, YOUNGER WITHOUT MAKE-UP. I feel like I'm 20 years old physically, I've always had a HIGH energy level, I'm a pretty happy person and very very active, so I don't look my age. THANK YOU HEAVENLY FATHER! Anyway NOW DON'T KILL ME, JUDGE ME, OR BASH ME. But my CHEATING EX is 23. YEAH I KNOW I KNOW I KNOW..BELIEVE I HAVE HEARD IT AAAAAALLLL. But let me just ADD...HE ACTED LIKE A MAN IN THE BEGINNING....HE TREATED ME LIKE A WOMAN.....HE WORKED AND GAVE ME HIS ENTIRE CHECK WHEN HE WAS WORKING TO TAKE CARE OF HOME....HE SEEMED MATURE ENOUGH TO HANDLE MY WOMANHOOD...HE SWORE HE COULD HANDLE THIS RELATIONSHIP...AND HIS MOTHER AND FATHER WERE BOTH SUPPORTIVE IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. ALTHOUGH I WILL ADMIT...I NEVER SHOULD HAVE GIVEN HIS ENFAMIL SMELLING TAIL THE TIME OF DAY. I WAS TOO MUCH WOMAN OBVIOUSLY. So now that it's exposed, I'M A COUGAR LOL. The story can continue. I'm not sure at that moment what went thru my head when she yelled that out..BUT I CAN SAY IT DIDN'T CLICK. Have you guys figured it out yet, what's going on? Well I'll tell you. The guy that my niece was sleeping with WAS THE CHICK DOWNSTAIRS BOYFRIEND!!!! HER SON'S FATHER!!!! YOU GET IT NOW...THE CHICK WHO MY EX WAS EMAILING (CHANCY) IS LIVING AND DATING THE GUY WHO WAS LEAVING FLOWERS AND BONING MY NIECE. So now I see how things WERE. When she (my niece) called me that day to tell me about her PROBLEM, I still had my home. For the chick to KNOW MY AGE and have the ability to make a comment regarding my age, TELLS ME THAT MY EX HAD BEEN DEALING WITH THIS LITTLE GIRL BEFORE I EVEN MOVED HERE. After my niece called me and told me what was going on, MY CHEATING LOW LIFE EX told the girl her man was sleeping with me niece. So I have come to the horrible conclusion that when he would leave to dump the trash (He would dump our trash at the apartment which is blocks from my house) which indicates he met her at some point and was dealing with her while I was pregnant and had NO CLUE. All I can say when I think about this is PRAISE GOD ALMIGHTY THAT THE WORLD HAS LAWS THAT WE HAVE TO ABIDE BY. IF THERE WERE NO LAWS, I WOULD GO PURCHASE A 9 MILLIMETER GLOCK. THE BIGGEST ONE MY TINY LITTLE HANDS COULD HOLD AND BLOW THAT A$$WIPES WIG BACK!!!! But I don't look good in orange or stripes...and I'm a litttle to fond of my Victoria's Secret lotions and bodysprays to be imprisoned, BUT I SWEAR!!! I need prayer........