Listen to your feelings. Mine were never wrong but I allowed myself to be lied to and gaslighted. Do his actions match his words? Cheaters always say no when asked if they're cheating. CHEATERS ARE LIARS! Start digging: cell phone itself, cell phone bill, emails, social media etc. Hire a PI if you want proof that will hold up in court or can be used legally to leverage a better settlement if it all heads south. Demand a post nup that has an infidelity clause. Read my post "Welcome to the newly betrayed". See if anything there raises any red flags for you.

Trust your instincts - always!!

Your best bet is to check his phone. You can also put a voice recorder in his car. If he has an iphone you can use Find Friends. There are lots of ways.

Good luck!

Can you be a little more specific? What gives you the feeling that he is cheating? How long have you felt this way? Has he cheated before?

I was able to find evidence in my wife's hangouts in Google. If he has th is type of account , he will more than likely have shifted his behavior there as it allows pics as well as text and she thought it gave her some coverage because of the password. And her assuming that I was completely tech stupid

Thank you all it makes me feel better that my feelings about this don't make me crazy. I will keep my eyes open but its so hard as he is off all morning while I"m at work. After I confronted him about the texts on his phone I haven't found any is quite some time now. Recently he put facebook messenger on his phone so I know how easily they can be deleted and leave no trail. So frustrating.

....ok yes he is cheating. You already caught him.

You found texts and know that you check his texts.

He gets Facebook messenger.

Randomly ask him for his phone for you to check. If he refuses then you have simple confirmation that he is continuing to cheat.

Get tested for STDs and don't have sex with him.

Read " Welcome to the newly betrayed post"

I do check his phone as often as I can but still haven't seen anything new. Just changed some of the settings on messenger and hope to get a email if he gets a fb messenger message. Did get checked for STDs already just to be safe.
So I'm sure if something is happening there will be a slip and it will come out. Anyway I hope so, I hate the not knowing for sure.

I think you already know for sure. I used to be in denial about a past relationship where my guy was cheating and deep down inside I knew without alot of evidence. I just didn't wanna admit it. Good Luck!