My ordal began back in February of this year, I had joined this supprt group, and had alot of help and support ,I had intercepted a phone call on my H cell phone at 5 am , a co worker claiming ot be his friend asking him if he was ok since there was a reported car accident out near my house wich it is true there was , my parents have police scanner . That is how it all began, the number was hidden under his dads name my father in law.I called him on his way to work and confronted him he told me at that time that he was not sure he wanted to be married anymore he didn't know what he wanted, we have been togetehr nearly 15 years and we have 2 kids. well that was the start of the downward spiral for us ,nothing but lies. lies lies......so he moved out or I asked him to move out ,she called me back and stated they were just friends, this was Feb 19 , sometime in early march he moved back in stating he knew what he wanted and told me abut the woman he picked up in a bar ,there was never a woman from the bar it was this co worker the whole time ,I had been right the whole time , 10 days after I had talked to her they had slept together the first time. Well the story gets even more interesting ,it is now November .. .I kept seeing RedTail Hawks all around me, there was one even perched on my wishing well not to long ago ,I felt like there had been something trying to tell me something,I could not shake this nagging feeling, he kept telling me everything was ok, we are fine , I was not working at the time he said we were getting along better with me at home.less stress. ect. .. the last few weeks, I would say the last two weeks in October up until November 2 were really odd. so I managed to get on line into the nextel account ,since his sister and he were so vague about me seeing any of the bills and whenI requested an imtemized bill she called and cancelled it ,our phones are through her .I knew and was told over and over you can look at itemized bills on line , well I managed to do it ,OMG!!!!!!I knew I would see the number a few times ,but nothing could prepare me for what I seen ,mind you they work together, they called each other everysingle bloody day to and from work on breaks and lunches,her birthday my birthday , all holidays, and valentines days was the worse, I got a car unsigned she got a 2 hour phone call with roses and chocolates I found this out later when I got ahold of her husband see shee got brave and started calling my H from her home phone ,I called and left a message he called me back he like me had known there was something going on but he didn't know what and with who ,so we met up at McDonalds and began to piece together the last year ,He's in a wheelchair he lost his legs ,they had been married for 20 +years, I have been married 16 years, he said he knew ,I highlighted all calls in coming and out going with a yellow highlighter, let's put it this way it would of glowed in the dark ,He said she told him they wer ejust friends ,thats why he wanted the phone records, he said even if it were true this is to much contact, and then she said that my H was stalking her and would not leave her alone , well he said there are just as many incoming calls to my H phone as there is out .Since Nov 2 my H moved out and got his own place ,he is bitter nad hateful to me and the kids, Her H has since asked her to leave he told me that thi9s was not the first time for him, though he was naive and believed her the last time around ,My H finally told me the whole truth I was right the whole time ,it was always this woman Sherry Taylor ,I did a lot of detective work and figure it out ,He lied to me the whole time, he told me he slept with her htat one time back in Feb but then when he wanted to work it out with me ,he was talking to her the whole time ,I mean the phone calls are insane. he siad' after that one time the ywer just friends now Im like your talking to the woman you slept with everyday and you lied to me about it and hid your tracks, I finally feel liberated, Im free.... Now my H and the Ow are in hell, Her Husband is not free , he calls me about once a week to talk to me just ot have to try and vent and figure it out ,I told my H you were screwing around with a woman who's husband is in a wheelchair ,who depends on her ,who left him sitting there with no care ,while she was out with you in the backseast of your car ,I feel nothing for my H anymore , now it has turned nasty ,I had to change the locks, I have a girlfriend who just got out of an abusive relationship move in with me with her little boy , we are both trying to put our lives back together again ,find our way , I can't believe I could of been so blind. How fast he turned on me and his kids, ......Just needed to tell the truty here ,since I have been battling it for months