Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I just wanted to share my experience over the past few days with yall. On DDay I had very little information about the affair, enough to know there was one, but not a lot of detail. At first, I didn't even think about if I wanted or needed to know more, all I felt was that generic betrayal. A couple weeks later, I discovered some more detail, all of those intital feelings of anger and hatred came flooding back, and the movies started playing in my head; imagining and assuming what may have went on, what "probably" happened. Recently, CS handed over her e-mail, and much to my surprise, she didn't clean it out first. I spent almost an entire day reading every word of every email exchange, received and sent, and that's when the hurt really set in; now I knew. I cried and I puked. I don't know if CS left it all there on purpose or not, but I am grateful she did. I will take that immediate intense pain of absolute knowledge over prolonged wondering and assuming. The deep wounds will heal and the scars will make me stronger, this I have faith in. I know they say some BS need to know, some don't, I guess I did.
