Background: yesterday I got upset with H because it looked to me he was acting suspiciously. He probably wasn't but I get suspicious for any little thing now.
So we kind of had an " on and off" of talking. me crying and him getting upset so we just stopped talking. We didn't speak yesterday and this morning. So I'm thinking ok you are giving me the silent treatment when I didn't do anything.So I decide to move to the house.I didn't tell him my plans.I even wrote a letter to send him later today. I gather stuff like cups plates etc. Went to store to buy milk and bread. Came back to apartment. I was gone about an hour because I went for my calming drive. At the apartment H was cooking breakfast ( he never does) and says do you want eggs? So slowly slowly we start talking. Our nice neighbors decide to cut our grass so we talk about that.etc. an hour later H is all lovey dovey and wants to have sex.Now Im thinking (didn't say it) didn't we just have a no speaking 2 days where I decide to leave for a while? And he is in mood for this?
Someone please tell me if this is normal? Am I going crazy or was this not supposed to happen like this?
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